Styling notes
Fashion & wardrobe.
I want to be a stylist because I believe getting dressed should feel like a small daily kindness. Here's how I think about it.

Four rules I actually use
Style, not fashion.
- 01
Buy the shoe twice.
If you wear it every week, replace it before it dies — and replace it with the same thing if you loved it. Wardrobe maths.
- 02
One excellent neutral coat.
Camel, cream, or charcoal. Wool. A size up for layering. This is the piece that does the heaviest lifting in your photos and your life.
- 03
Tailoring is your edit suite.
A R450 hem can turn a charity-shop blazer into the best thing you own. A good seamstress is a lifelong relationship.
- 04
Colour from the scarf.
If you're nervous about colour, wear it next to your face in a scarf or earring. Anchor with neutrals. Feel braver next week.
The cass capsule
Six pieces, endless outfits.
Ivory tailored blazer
Shoulder structure, sleeve a touch long, single button.
Wide-leg trouser
Wool-blend, full break, pressed crease. Looks like you've thought about it.
White cotton shirt
Crisp poplin. One size up. Sleeves rolled twice.
Cashmere crew
Oat, navy, or black. Worth the splurge once.
Loafer or ballet flat
Leather, soles that can be replaced, slightly worn.
Silk scarf
Your colour. The whole outfit, for the price of one accessory.
November 2025 · Sunday best
This is how I went to church.
A cold, rainy November Sunday. A burgundy button-through cardigan, my beloved Freddy stretch jeans, burgundy patent pumps, and classic Ralph Lauren spectacles. Nothing complicated — just fit, colour, and a good heel.

The jeans are Freddy. I love my Freddy stretch jeans — they give you that apple-bottom lift you actually want, they hold their shape all day, and they never sag at the knee. If you buy one pair of jeans this year, make it a pair that does the work for you.
The perfume was Viktor & Rolf Flowerbomb — patchouli, tea rose, jasmine and a sweet, unmistakable trail. Bold for a rainy morning, but Flowerbomb is never really about the weather.
The spectacles are classic Ralph Lauren. Were. The puppies ate them. Yes — destroyed. Completely.
This was also the season the weight started coming up steadily, and you can see it in my face. Good jeans, a good scent, a body slowly returning to itself.
Note the background — this was just before the house changed. Soft, French, lined wallpaper and the white set of drawers. See the before and after over on Interiors.
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4 August 2026 · Favourite look
Subtle for who?
My absolute favourite look. A black bodysuit with dramatic organza sleeves and a hot-pink tiered tulle skirt that moves like a party. Pink mules, a soft smoky eye, and the kind of make-up that says I am here, but I did not try too hard. This is the outfit that makes me feel most myself.

Enough said, how much frill is too much? To me, there is no such thing. The sleeves give theatre, the skirt gives volume, and the black bodysuit grounds the whole thing so it never feels costume-y. It is bold, it is feminine, and it is unapologetic.
The perfume was Ted Baker Polly — the perfect match for the look. Light, playful, a little sweet, and just confident enough to hold its own against all that pink.
"Subtle for who? Not me. Not today."
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The scent, note by note
Ted Baker Polly is a bright, feminine floral-fruity fragrance — the kind that feels like a compliment in a bottle. It is playful without being childish, and it wears close to the skin so it feels personal rather than overpowering.
- Top — red fruits, bergamot, pink pepper. A sparkling, juicy opening that reads cheerful from the first spray.
- Heart — peony, jasmine, lily of the valley. Soft pink florals that give the fragrance its feminine, romantic centre.
- Base — cedar, musk, amber. The warm, skin-close finish that keeps it lingering gently through the day.
Wear it with volume, with colour, with joy. Spray on wrists and behind the ears, and let the skirt do the rest.
5 August 2026 · SA supporter
Green and gold runs through me.
My homage to being a South African supporter. Never one to take the conventional route — this is how I go out to support my country, no matter what. Boks, Proteas, Bafana Bafana… anyone. Green and gold, but just enough to make me an SA girl — not the men I like, and not the food I eat.

This is my SA uniform. Khaki cargo trousers that fit like they were made for me, a gold chainmail top that catches the light with every move, and gold glitter heels that say I am here to watch the game — but I am absolutely here to be seen. The orange bag is the punctuation mark.
The perfume was Elie Saab — amber, orange blossom, rose honey and patchouli. It is warm, golden, and impossible to ignore, which is exactly the point. When you are dressed like this, the scent has to keep up.
Thoughts and prayers for Argentina this weekend — the Boks are about to make picanha out of them. But win or lose, the uniform stays. Green and gold runs through me.
"How sexy is this outfit? Smoking hot — and supporting my country while I wear it."
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The scent, note by note
Elie Saab's signature fragrance is a warm, radiant floral-amber — the kind that feels like candlelight on skin. It is elegant without being quiet, and it lasts long enough to carry you from kick-off to the final whistle.
- Top — orange blossom. A bright, creamy floral opening that reads immediately luxurious and sun-warmed.
- Heart — jasmine grandiflorum, rose honey. The rich, golden centre that gives the fragrance its opulent, almost edible warmth.
- Base — patchouli, cedar, amber. The deep, resinous finish that grounds all that brightness and makes it unforgettable.
Wear it with gold, with confidence, and with a team to support. Spray on wrists and behind the ears — and let the heels do the talking.
31 July 2026 · New York, always
I dress for New York — and a year that changed shape.
New York is who I dress for, and how I dress. Somewhere in my bones I think I'm Mexican/Puerto Rican — that downtown, uptown, sidewalk-as-runway energy. Same denim jumpsuit, two very different women.


I can't look at pictures of myself from 2024, and honestly not much of early 2025 either. Then August last year happened — a coalescing, two spirits colliding — and since then the weight has picked up. Thank God. So much has changed since that event. What a meet-cute.
The clothes didn't change. I did.
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29 July 2026 · Today's look
The face that stops men in their tracks.
Be who you want to be, and can be. This is fresh but polished — an ivory lace cami, long tousled hair, and a face that says I know exactly who I am today.

Fresh yet polished — the recipe
- Skin first, always. Cleanse, hydrate, SPF. A dewy base beats any foundation.
- One sheer layer of base. Skin tint or a whisper of foundation buffed with fingers — nothing that mattes you out.
- Cream over powder. Cream blush high on the cheekbone, cream bronzer on the outer socket — everything melts into skin.
- A soft smoky eye. Warm bronze on the lid, black liner smudged into the lash line, one coat of mascara. Never both a strong eye and strong lip.
- Brows groomed, not drawn. Brush up, set with clear gel — that alone lifts the whole face.
- A glossy nude lip. Line with a warm rosewood pencil, top with a clear or peachy gloss.
- Highlight only where light hits. Cheekbones, cupid's bow, inner corner. A pin-drop, not a spotlight.
- Hair worn down and a little undone. Polished is not perfect — polished is intentional.
Be who you want to be, and can be. The rest of the room will catch up.
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Today's look
Socrati red boots, cream leggings, and a little J'adore.


Today's outfit is inspired by wanting to dress up despite the pain. The cream leather leggings do the whole silhouette in one clean line, the cream cashmere V-neck keeps it soft, and then the boots — Socrati, Brazilian, since 2017 — do the talking.
The colour isn't quite ox-blood. It's a shade richer, warmer, a proper show-off and show-up piece. Nearly a decade in and they still look brand new — a wonderful addition to my lexicon of fashion and to my long love of Brazilian boots.
Perfume of the day: Dior J'adore. Soft, golden, beautiful — so why not.
Dress up despite the pain. The boots do the rest.
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The dream
Olive, cream boots, and Sì Passione.



Winter is well and truly behind us — but I am not parting with these boots. Best purchase of the year: cream leather knee-highs with a slim cone heel, cute and, miracle of miracles, comfy. They lift the leg, they lift the mood.
The olive-green tie-front ruffle playsuit has been sitting patiently — worn once before, then hung up like a secret. Today it earned its second outing. The colour is soft, the silhouette is romantic, and the tiered ruffle at the hem does all the work.
The dream? To dress other people. I have an eye for what is good and what looks good on someone else — something different, unexpected, and completely them. Not wacky. Never wacky. I like classic, girly, elegant, fantastic silhouettes.
This look would land in Rome as beautifully as it would in New York. The world is my runway.
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Denim days
Lost Cherry and cowboy boots.

This look is pure Jo'burg meets Nashville — a long-sleeve denim-print bodycon dress with a trompe-l'œil belt and pocket detail, finished with sand cowboy boots. It's casual, it's sculpted, and it has just enough attitude to make a Tuesday feel like an event.
Cowboy boots are one of those things people think they can't pull off. Nonsense. The pointy toe elongates the leg, the stacked heel gives you a little lift without the agony of stilettos, and the whole thing whispers I know exactly what I'm doing.
The scent: Tom Ford Lost Cherry. Black cherry, almond, vanilla and sandalwood — rich, boozy, and impossible to ignore. It is not a shy perfume, and neither is this look.
Some days you need heels. Some days you need boots. Both are power moves.

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Winter / spring confusion
Burgundy jeans and pencil ankle boots.

Today's weather is a full winter/spring confusion — budding trees on our walk, and yet still that Jo'burg July nip in the air. So the look followed suit: a soft grey cropped knit for the chill, and burgundy skinny jeans for the promise of spring.
The finishing move is the pencil-heel mesh ankle boots — sharp, a little bit sheer, a lot of attitude. Because a good ankle boot on a confused-weather day is basically a mood stabiliser.
The scent: Calvin Klein CK One Essence. Lord have mercy, it is fresh and vibrant — clean citrus, a whisper of green, the kind of perfume that makes you feel like you slept eight hours even when you were up at 4am.
Dress for the weather you have, and the weather you're hoping for. Layer the difference.

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Winter, simply
Madison Avenue, faux fur.

I love dressing up in winter, and this look is so simple. The jeans and the boots are everything — and the cream cable-knit jumper? My mother knitted it years ago. Every time I pull it on it feels like a hug from home.
I can see myself walking down Madison Avenue in New Yorkand totally fitting in with the rest of the faux-fur lovers. The more the better. Faux fur is winter's best editorial trick — instant drama, zero animals harmed.
The look is rounded out with the perfect scent: Dior's J'adore. I remember the gorgeous Charlize heading that campaign for Dior, and as a fellow South African I really supported and loved the soft, golden scent.
I don't have summer and winter scents. Wear your signature — or whatever you feel like smelling of that day. Why be so rigid about perfume? Wear what you love and love what you wear.

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Extra, extra
The newspaper called — it wants its dress back.

I love this look. It has a retro elegance that reminds me of the Sex and the City moment where Carrie wears a newspaper-print top — all New York, art-in-stilettos energy. It's over-the-top, but that's exactly the point.
The dress itself is strapless, covered in black-and-white newsprint and pale blue butterflies, and finished with the most delicate pale pink heels. Stretford, as usual, loves the camera more than I do — and honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.
Dressing up is something I've done since I can remember. My mother would take me shopping on a Saturday, and if she didn't watch me intently every single second, she'd find me posing in the department-store window, acting as if I was a mannequin. I loved posing. I still do.
This look is a reminder to live — to drag every morsel out of life that you can, because it can be taken away in a heartbeat. How do you want to be remembered? Do you want your last memory to be one of regret that you didn't do more, see more, experience more?
The best lives are lived by the ones who never say no, who always push the limits, and who do not fear the results of their decisions if they were made with a pure heart and a gentle, loving intent.
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World Cup ready
Supporting England.

I look completely miserable here, but it's from a lack of sleep watching Spain make it to the World Cup final. Viva España — my newly adopted country. Today, though, I'm wearing England on my chest: a nod to the part of my heritage that still lives in my heart, and to the years I lived in England.
Also: justice for Sir David Beckham. The man is a national treasure and a style icon. End of discussion.
The outfit itself is sport-meets-glamour. The white England track jacket keeps it casual; the gold leggings bring the drama; the Nike high-tops ground the whole thing in "I might actually kick a ball today" energy. It's comfortable enough to wear through a match, a workout, and a nap on the couch — which, given my 15-minute movement sessions, is exactly what I need.
Fingers crossed for England — and that the pain stays bubbling lava instead of blowing its top like Mount Vesuvius.
A nod to Carrie
Pink tutu, ballet ribbons.

My nod to Sarah Jessica Parker. In the intro to Sex and the City, Carrie wears a pink tutu — and then in her bus poster, a version of the shoes, like a ballet slipper. This whole look is my love letter to both.
I loved ballet as a little girl. I was so good at it — really very good. I was put en pointe within the first ten months of me dancing, and I loved it.
The entire outfit is so great, so arty — a statement if ever there was one. I have to admit it was a birthday-dress contender last year, but the gold dress won. I'm so happy with this look. I can hear "I'm Walking on Sunshine" playing in my head every time I see it.
I don't look sick, right? Not all that glitters is gold — well, actually, I am golden — but the outside is so far removed from the raging bull named FND that besets my days.
I look at the picture and I am happy. I find joy. This makes me feel like I can walk amongst the many without a siren above my head, without a crowd screaming unclean, unclean! I'm no leper — that would be far more obvious — but at least I get to wear pretty clothes and heels and feel "normal" for a minute. Or whatever "normal" is.
Don't cry for me, Argentina. I'm a fighter. I claw my way up the mountain each day, reach the summit, fall back to earth, and do it all over again. And now that I think about it — I wouldn't have it any other way.
The gold birthday dress
2025 called — it wants its gold dress back.

How amazeballs is this dress. And the shoes. You can see I'm feeling myself — that smile, that look. I really love this dress.
The warm ochre and shadow-black remind me of a Vermeer painting — I could totes be in the Netherlands, standing in that golden window light.
I feel like Tina Sparkle in this dress. Wanting to do the bogo-pogo. I fell in love with Baz Luhrmann watching Strictly Ballroom in high school — and now Baz curates and assists with the Met Gala for Anna Wintour. Who knew everything would come full circle in such a beautiful way.
"A life lived in fear is a life half lived." — Strictly Ballroom
Summer knocked
And I answered.

Summer knocked and I answered. This dress — the halter neck, the ruffled skirt, the way it moves — is everything. And it's backless, which makes the whole thing feel like a secret you only notice when I turn around.
The shoes are zebra-print heels, yellow and black, doing the most in the best way. The massive Michael Kors tote in olive green is the kind of bag that holds your whole life and still looks expensive on your shoulder. I was a whole snatch in this look — gorgeous, and I literally stopped traffic. Like, literally.
Perfume on the day: Jean Paul Gaultier Classique — the original for women, that corset-shaped bottle, all vanilla, ginger, rose and amber. It's warm, it's bold, it's a woman who knows she's arrived.
I think I'm always trying to channel Carrie Bradshaw. She is my style icon — I love her so much. The tutu, the heels, the city-as-runway energy. This look is my love letter to her: a little dramatic, a little soft, and completely unapologetic.
Backless, flowing, zebra heels, and a tote big enough for my whole life. Carrie would approve.
Sunday winter casual
Blue skies, bone-chilling cold.

Some Sundays, knocking out a solid dress look for church isn't what happens. Sometimes in Jo'burg, there are blue skies and sunshine — but it's cold. Bone-chillingly cold.
The ruffled Freddie jeans are everything. What you can't quite see are the Brazilian designer boots tucked under the hem. And the gold touch running through the jersey? Epic.
Perfume of the day: Tom Ford Black Orchid — dark florals, black truffle, patchouli, a little decadence for a quiet Sunday at home.
Just a snack. A whole snack.
Full disclosure — because FND and gastroparesis distress have been in charge lately, I've lost another 5 kg. Dear Lord. The jeans hang differently now. I'm still here, still dressing up for myself on a cold Sunday, still choosing the good perfume. That's the whole plot.
The devil wears Prada
Andy Sachs, aiming for Miranda.

When you know, you know. I am Andy Sachs, aiming to be Miranda Priestly. If only I could have worked for Anna Wintour.
That is exactly why I studied communications and majored in English and journalism. The dream was always the glossy masthead, the September issue, the click of heels down a marble hallway.
I love Meryl Streep and everyone else in that film — Emily, Nigel, Stanley Tucci's every eyebrow. J'adore.
"Florals? For spring? Groundbreaking."
The That's-All bag energy — quiet gold hardware, tan leather, a life waiting to be lived in it.
What is smart casual, even?
Stripes, knee boots, a Flowerbomb mist.

When I was invited to my very first work event, the invitation said "smart casual". I had to google what that even was. Years later, I think this picture is my epitome of smart casual — with a touch of Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.
As girls, we all wish for those massive coincidental "cute meets". But we forget she was a lady who sold herself as her life business, even though she wanted more. What we really want is a knight in shining armour — one who takes away our doubts, our insecurity, our financial worries.
Be that as it may — I paired this outfit with Flowerbomb perfume and a Chanel tote. Could there be anything better? Even my phone cover was a caricature of Karl Lagerfeld.
Make better choices when you dress — but don't be a coat hanger. Wearing one designer head-to-toe is just lazy. Find your own self and your own voice. Authenticity is the best flex you'll ever have.
And I'm hearing Madonna sing Vogue. Can you?
Let's go bohemian
Leopard chiffon, peep-toe furry boots.

The cutest little dress — ruffles down the front, tie neckline, floaty leopard chiffon sleeves. How spectacular are the peep-toe furry boots? Bohemian to the bone.
Scent on the day was Ted Baker Original. I know it's not a winter fragrance — my best winter scent is Tom Ford Black Orchid — but I think Black Orchid can traverse seasons. Fragrances shouldn't be pigeon-holed.
Speaking of pigeons — did you know Mike Tyson kept pigeons as pets before he was famous? Random fact if there ever was one.
And I can hear The Weeknd singing "I Feel It Coming" with Daft Punk. Let's dance — South Africans love to dance and sing. We are the best people and country in the world. I dare you to prove me wrong.
Winter warmers
Full J-Lo, muted tones.

When winter hits, I become full on J-Lo. The boots are my new obsession — a tiny wedge that's covered all round, cream leather, knee-high, quietly powerful.
The faux fur jacket with a mix of baby pink for contrast — it's all soft muted tones. The jacket and boots make the look. The jersey is from Poetry, the Freddie jeans fit like a glove, and the finishing layer is Tom Ford Orchid Soleil — warm, floral, unforgettable.
Always making a statement. When I walk into a room I want people to ask: "who's that girl?" — and when we meet, they will never forget the scent I'm wearing.
What people forget is that people judge you from the second they see and meet you. So shake the earth to its core when you make an entrance. Scream loudly on the inside — yes girl, you've arrived.
The jacket, the boots, the scent. That's the trinity. Everything else is scaffolding.
A very Jo'burg winter
Fur, leather, and a Gucci in hand.

A very Jo'burg winter — crisp light, high sky, no need for a coat until sundown. The fur trim is a touch of elegance; it lifts a simple bardot top into something quietly cinematic.
I am really partial to a leather pant. It's such a versatile look — day to night in seconds. A crisp knit and flats in the morning, swap for a heel and a red lip by seven. And don't sleep on how amazing the boots are — cream, slouched, knee-high, doing all the heavy lifting. The whole look is a statement piece.
Perfume on the day: Tom Ford Black Orchid Soleil. The handbag left inside — classic Gucci, the one that never dates. Tom Ford is my new love in terms of perfumes; the man is exceptional.
Fur, leather, cream boots and a Black Orchid mist. That's a Saturday in Jo'burg — dressed for yourself first, everyone else second.
Not all jumpsuits are equal
The bow-back jumpsuit.



Not all jumpsuits are equal. I am partial to a jumpsuit — I love them, I have many — but this is my absolute favourite. The design is exquisite: high neck at the front, a wide-leg fall, and a back completely exposed and "garnished" with a bow. Front, it reads as restraint. Turn, and it does all the talking.
The shoes are designer — leopard-print pointed heels, because what else does a girl need. Black gives you the room to be quiet everywhere else, so the tailoring and the reveal can do the work. Anything in black works when the cut is right.
Find your choice, find your voice, and defend it to the end.

Name change day · Lolita Lempicka
The most important days deserve the perfect perfume.



Wearing my perfect perfume — Lolita Lempicka. I save this for the most important days. Licorice, violet, warm vanilla in that little violet-apple bottle — it is incredible and, honestly, it can't be beat.
The black jumpsuit is a new addition and I love it. I love a jumpsuit — always have — and the utility zip front with the wide leg is such a good silhouette. The gold chain belt pulls the waist in and makes the whole thing a statement. It makes a statement, right?
On my feet, the best Brazilian designer shoes I bought from Socrati in Hyde Park — black pointed heels with a white ankle cuff and a bright red block heel at the back. Whenever I wear them I get the best comments. Every time.
The buffalo-check shacket is absolutely the most welcome addition to the overall look — it softens the tailoring and adds that quiet, thrown-on ease. And the slicked-back hair is exactly what the whole thing needs; it rounds it off beautifully.
Early spring in Jo'burg — weird, but oh so great, and full of promise.


White satin & leopard
Rising like a phoenix, soaring like a condor.

I love this look. High-neck white satin, long blouson sleeves, bias fall to mid-calf — and then the leopard platform heels, because I am more than partial to any animal print. Leopard, zebra, snake, cow — put it on me, I'll wear it, and I'll wear it well. Proudly South African. The bush is in the blood.
The perfume is Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue — Sicilian lemon, Granny Smith apple, cedar, jasmine, musk. It is holiday in a bottle. It is a white linen shirt on a boat. On this dress it lifts the whole thing off the ground.
And when I catch my reflection in this look, I think of everything my body has walked me through — and I am rising like a phoenix out of the ashes, soaring like a condor over the Andes. Wingspan wide. Eyes on the horizon. Nothing that tried to bury me got to keep me.
White satin, leopard heels, Light Blue on the pulse — and a woman who came back.
The man behind the bottle
Who is Tom Ford?
Thomas Carlyle Ford was born in Austin, Texas in 1961. He studied architecture at Parsons in New York and Paris before switching to fashion — the switch that changed a whole industry.
He started out in New York in the mid-1980s designing for Cathy Hardwick and then Perry Ellis (under Marc Jacobs). In 1990 he joined Gucci as womenswear designer, and by 1994 he was Creative Director. He resurrected a house that was on its knees — velvet hipsters, satin shirts unbuttoned to there, that white cut-out jersey dress — and turned Gucci into the most talked-about label of the '90s.
In 1999 Gucci Group acquired Yves Saint Laurent, and Tom Ford took on Creative Director there too — designing for both houses simultaneously until 2004. Then he left, and in 2005 launched his own signature line, TOM FORD — beauty and fragrance first, then menswear, then womenswear, then eyewear. He also directed two films — A Single Man (2009) and Nocturnal Animals (2016) — both nominated for major awards. In 2022 Estée Lauder acquired the brand for roughly $2.8 billion.
He is exceptional. Everything he touches feels considered, sensual, and grown-up — which is exactly why Black Orchid and Black Orchid Soleil live on my dressing table.
"I don't design clothes; I design dreams." — Tom Ford
Signature scent
Myrrh & Tonka.
My latest love is by Jo Malone — a fragrance that wraps around me like a warm scarf on a cold morning. It is rich, resinous, and quietly commanding. I wear it as the final layer of an outfit, the thing people remember after I've left the room.
- Top note
Lavender — calm, clean, and inviting.
- Heart
Myrrh — warm, golden resin with ancient depth.
- Base
Tonka bean, vanilla & almond — creamy, smoky, and impossibly long-lasting.
When to wear it
Autumn / Winter
Day — under a camel coat with cashmere and boots. It holds its own against the cold and lingers beautifully on a scarf. Night — with velvet, candlelight, and a bold lip. The myrrh turns smoky and dramatic after dark.
Spring / Summer
Day — one spritz on the wrists, paired with white linen and gold jewellery. The lavender keeps it fresh. Night — on bare shoulders at twilight; the tonka sweetens as the air cools.
Favourite scents
The collection.
Lolita Lempicka
Gourmand and fairy-tale sweet — licorice, violet, and warm vanilla in a violet apple bottle.
My go-to for winter evenings. I reach for this when I want to feel wrapped in something magical.
Flower Bomb, Viktor & Rolf
An explosion of patchouli and tea rose. Bold, unapologetic, and impossible to ignore.
Still a powerhouse. I wear this when I need to feel invincible — meetings, dinners, days I want to be remembered.
F***ing Fabulous, Tom Ford
Leather, almond, and clary sage. Cool, expensive, and exactly what it says on the bottle.
The name is not an exaggeration. This is my confidence scent. One spray and I feel like I own the room.
Gucci by Gucci
Guava, pear, and tahitian tiare flower. Sultry, tropical, and quietly powerful.
A summer holiday in a bottle. I spray this and instantly feel sun on my skin.
CK One
Clean, green, and effortlessly cool. The scent of a white T-shirt and fresh laundry.
My easy, no-think scent. Perfect for errands or days when I want to smell good without trying.
Poly, Ted Baker
Bright, playful, and polished — the finishing touch for a put-together day.
Pretty and polite. I wear this to brunch or casual Fridays when I want something light and cheerful.
Signature lipstick
A little Chanel pink.

Mine is Chanel, always. I adore Coco — the woman who freed women from corsets, put us in trousers, and made simplicity the ultimate sophistication. Wearing her name on my mouth feels like a small daily thank-you.
The shade is the light pink hippie — sensational. Soft, luminous, the kind of pink that flatters every skin tone and goes with absolutely anything and everything. Jeans and a white shirt, a black dress, a Sunday-morning face — it lifts all of it.
The finishing touch. The full stop at the end of an outfit.
The unexpected accessory
A begillion phone covers.

The best accessory you never thought you needed. I have a begillion phone covers and I match the cover to the outfit, the shoes, the perfume, the handbag. The phone is the thing in your hand all day — why would you let it be the dull bit?
I'm obsessed with the ones that have a grip ring or chain to slip between your fingers — ala Khloé Kardashian. Hands free, never dropped, and the whole gesture of it is its own little moment.
Everything you add to your look makes a statement as you walk through the door. Let them know you were there by your perfume; let them remember the picture by the details. People notice. People ask. People want to emulate it.
It is a thing. A whole thing. It's everything.

Head to toe
Stripes, navy patent, red lip.
Monochrome stripes pull the eye vertically; the oversized gold-rim sunglasses do the drama; the navy patent gladiator heel breaks the rule that navy and black can't share a frame (they can — promise). The red lip is the punctuation. The phone cover that day? Black quilted with a gold grip ring, because the sandals had gold hardware. Everything answers to everything else.
- · Match metals to metals — gold sunglasses, gold sandal hardware, gold phone ring.
- · One bold colour (the lip) — the rest of the palette stays disciplined.
- · The phone is an accessory. Treat it like jewellery.
How I learned to do makeup
A vow renewal, a YouTube tab, and Eman.

I was going away for a vow renewal in a place too remote for a makeup artist. So I did what every modern woman does — I opened Instagram, found Eman's Makeup for Beginners tutorial, and pressed play. I sent myself a shopping list. I'd never sculpted a face in my life.
My base is a water-based foundation by Bionike — light, breathable, kind to skin. I've swapped my pink blush for a soft peach; I just don't like anything too dramatic. My skin is flawless now — it wasn't back then.
I used to have my lashes done. Now I do my own — yes, I had to Google that too. My signature eye is a smoky Cleopatra — kohl, depth, drama where it counts. I hardly wear lipstick (I own about fifty); I prefer a gloss. My go-to lippy, when I do reach for one, is Chanel.
These days I only wear makeup to church. The rest of the week — clean skin, a beautiful moisturiser, and primer. Always primer. Prep the canvas.
Prep
Cleanse. A day-and-night moisturiser. Primer — always primer. Skin first, makeup second.
Base
Bionike water-based foundation. Light coverage, lets the skin breathe. Peach blush, never pink.
The eye
Smoky Cleopatra — kohl liner, deep shadow blended out. Lashes (DIY now). Brows brushed and filled.
The photo above — taken today. No foundation. Just lashes, eyeliner, brows. Nothing else.
2025, revisited
Lace, leather, and a little defiance.

There are days I look back at 2025 and think, Lord, have mercy. But this look?This look is fire. The boots were patent leather mini boots — sharp, glossy, and completely unapologetic. Churchill and Stretford, my beloved English Bulldogs, eventually claimed them, so they have been laid to rest. But oh, I loved them.
The cover is technically just that: a cover. Something to throw over a bikini. But hey-ho, who needs to stick to convention when it comes to fashion? Not me, sir or ma'am. Never have, never will. If it feels right, it goes on.
If only the picture were the whole reality. The pain it masks cannot be spoken about — not really, not fully. I carry my cross on my own. But that is the point of getting dressed, isn't it? To decide what the world sees, even when the body disagrees.
"I carry my cross on my own — but I carry it in great shoes."
An ode to print
Animal print and Sì Passione.

I am particularly partial to a good animal print. Being from South Africa, the penchant for a good print runs deep — straight through my veins and, if we're being honest, directly into my pancreas. This look? Well, what animal is this even? Leopard? Or a super-tanned giraffe that skipped the SPF on a walk through the Kruger Park? Either way, I think it's a knockout, if I say so myself.
Psssst — I buy my own clothing, and Ntombi is the photographer behind my iPhone. Zero makeup day. I love this look.
The perfume for this moment — perfect for day into night (sidebar: not that you would wear this dress during the day) — is Sì Passione from one of the greatest fashion designers, Mr Giorgio Armani. Incredible. It's full-on passion. The lemon notes are what make this perfume so iconic for me. Definitely my absolute favourite from Mr Armani.
And the shoes? They are their own spirit animal. I think they resemble a snake of some description? Who knows — they're amazing, and the perfect accompaniment to the overall look.
"Some prints roar. This one purrs — then turns around and asks for a glass of wine."


Prized & beloved
White lace, denim boots, and a little Classique.

Well hello there, ma'am — yes, you can look, but you absolutely cannot hijack these boots. They are prized and beloved by all who see me wearing them. Iconic, really. Even on a bad hair day, the dress does the talking.
This white lace dress is one of those timeless statement pieces I bought eons ago from the Young Designers Emporium in Hyde Park. I adore white lace — it photographs like a dream, feels romantic without trying too hard, and works regardless of where or when. A dress like this is always a good one to have on.
The perfume for this look is Jean-Paul Gaultier Classique — the original. I fell in love with the bottle when I was at university, and the smell is so intoxicating it has stayed with me ever since. Never, and I mean never, bruise your perfume by crushing it. The smell remains consistent, which might sound like a good thing, but it isn't. Perfume is meant to accentuate your own scent; it should become a signature piece to you and you alone.
"Do not crush the hell out of your perfume. Let it breathe, let it settle, let it become yours."
Your perfume is an extension of you — a quiet announcement before you even speak. Treat it with the same care you give a beloved pair of boots or a timeless lace dress, and it will reward you by becoming unmistakably, beautifully yours.

Cass's scent rule
Spray from a distance, let it land, and allow your skin chemistry to do the rest. A bruised perfume is a wasted perfume.
Eve of an anniversary
Deep thought, pink leopard, and a new classic.

In deep thought, but my casual fashion is still on point. I love African prints — the pink in this look is everything.The shoes are a new classic and an instant favourite. Clear mules, clean lines, and they let the print do all the talking.
It is the eve of my anniversary to a beautiful Spanish man, so I am doubling down on comfort that still looks considered. Hummus, labneh, warm flat breads — a little feast while I think about all the possibilities life has in store for me. A South African and a Spaniard. Donald Trump's biggest nightmare! Why? We will never know.
Casual does not mean careless. A good white tee, a bold print, and a shoe that feels like a discovery — that is the uniform for a night in with big thoughts and even bigger hope.
"Some nights you dress for the world. Some nights you dress for the couch, the hummus, and the man you love."
Winter cool
The black dress with the double zips.

A column of black, three-quarter sleeves, and two gold zips running the full length of the dress — one that opens from the collar, one that opens from the hem. It is the kind of dress that does not need jewellery, a belt, or a bag to make a point. Black suede ankle boots, a watch, a stack of bracelets, done.
Winter cool is not about layering yourself into a duvet. It is about line. This dress skims, the zips draw the eye straight down, and the boots finish the sentence. Simple, sharp, and warm enough for a Jo'burg winter afternoon.
The perfume was Gucci by Gucci. I added it to my collection in 2008 and everybody went nuts for it — it is a fantastic winter scent, the kind that lingers in a room after you have left it.
"Two zips, one dress, no explanation required."

The scent, note by note
Gucci by Gucci (2007) is a warm, dark oriental-chypre — leathery, powdery and a little smoky. It sits low and close on the skin, which is exactly why it works in cold weather.
- Top — pear, guava. A brief, juicy opening that keeps it from feeling heavy in the first ten minutes.
- Heart — tiaré flower, jasmine, orange blossom, lily. The creamy white-floral centre that gives it that unmistakable powdery lipstick softness.
- Base — patchouli, musk, amber, leather (cuir). The part that stays. The leather-and-patchouli accord is the reason it reads as a winter scent rather than a summer one.
Wear it on wool, on a coat collar, on the inside of your wrist. Spray from a distance, let it land, and do not crush it — let it become yours.
The gallery
Looks, in frame.
Tap any thumbnail to open it larger. Every entry is a moment — the dress, the light, the day it belonged to.